Hey guys,
Remember my first post about my third wheel fix? Uh huh. Gues what? She figugred it out. Between the man she wanted and the man she needed...guess who she chose? NONE. Yup you heard me right. Seems that she listened after all. See, im the type of person who believes in personal independence and development nefore bringing someone else in the picture. Ofcourse she does miss the sexy handsome beast who was the man she wanted...like we were out watching the Arsenal-Hull City game with friends the previous weekend and on her first drink, she was already contemplating calling him and with no time she did and thank God his phone was off phew!! Loneliness does creep in especially if you move out but nothing good doesnt take a while to form. Remember, without pressure and intense heat....we wouldn't make diamonds.
Now for such situations, no girl ever imagines them happening but somehow the drama always finds you especially if you seem to have your priorities misplaced. Sometimes I am really saddened when I hear girls talking like when they see another girl driving and instead of being like, "God give me such a car" they go like, "God give me a man who will buy me such a car" Such moments make me want to pull my hair off right from the roots. Personally the way im brought up is that Women are capable of achievement almost just as men. I also know that women who strive to be equal to men, lack ambition. I got my first job when I probably was like 14 or something like that. In high school, sometimes I found myself doing odd jobs for those rich kids just so I could try also buying something from the canteen as my folks couldnt really afford it. And as weird and shady and poor as I may have seemed and looked at the time, I still got money out of it. Whether it was doing an assignment for someone, doing a punishment for them or sometimes laundry...I somehow got through.
Most girls about 70%, live in the shadows of their female friends and boyfriends. These are the "friends" who always tag along for lunch but never pay, tag along when youre going to chill and insist on having what you're having but never pay. These are the people who literally dont know the pain of paying your own rent, paying fees for yourself etc and hence dont know the sweetness of the fruits. Some of these girls actually do get lucky and get a guy who takes them in, provides transport, pays rent, does shopping and all that but what I know for a fact is that such guys rarely respect their women...I have seen it with so many people.
Good people, independence is expensive and requires continuous hard work BUT the pleasures you enjoy from it, amazing. Ask me, I would know. The fact that I can walk into Vila Rosa and order anything I want and swipe the bill...you have no idea the kind of satisfaction it gives me. And you know what, God gives you what you deserve. If you're a hardworker, God gives you your match. If youre lazy and only believe in handouts, well you will get the same. Life is very fair in its own way boys and girls.
So as you start a new week, work your ass off. Make your buck, and when you wake up...give thanks for everything. Such tiny habits, take one a long way. Keep the faith and fight a good fight...God will never let you be put to shame. I pray that all my girls reading this, place themselves where they know they fit and do what is necessary after all, Hard work never goes unpaid.
Blessings and Love,
Nyandia.
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