Hello
Beautiful people…this past weekend, I learnt a thing or two on several things
that sell you members of the Adam Clan short to women you really want but never
get and keep on wondering why. So, due to my love for you and speaking from a
mature woman’s point of view ill list down but a few of habits or things to
completely quit.
1.
Social Media
First and foremost, I don’t get why you’re social media
friends with your partners…I honestly don’t. God knows a slight
misunderstanding or misinterpretation on a comment or something of the sort can
break a home. Also, you need to realize that each of you has their own lives
before you met and will continue to have one after each other. Respect is
paramount here. In depth:
a. Photos- Nobody wants to consider a
serious relationship or even hook up with someone whose photos still include
their exes. We get it, everyone has a past but that doesn’t entail me having to
be reminded of it every time.
b. Also if weekend after weekend you’re
posting photos of you and some random (or not) girls twerking all over you and
you taking sambuka shots off their bodies, think twice…Nobody wants that.
c. Soppy updates as a guy, dude! Why not
get a tampon while at it LQTM ok sorry but seriously, its social media. Your personal
life should be yours.
d. AND posting photos of your after
clubbing bill, come on man!! Why not send a nude, a photocopy of your tax
returns and your result slips as well so she can see all the ways you’re going to
disappoint her.
2.
Asking for nudes
The minute you hit send to that text ‘Send me a pic *wink*’, every ounce
of respect she may have had for you, goes out of the window. Yup best believe
that.
3.
Borrowing Money from her
Until you’ve quite established the relationship and you are both at that
point where you are comfortable discussing finances and budget with each other,
don’t you ever do this. It is a pure and simple turn off.
4.
Insisting on Sleep-overs at her place
I get the once in a while ‘we went out, got drunk, had a good time and
ended up in her place’ thing. What I don’t get is popping up uninvited to her
place and refusing to leave while feasting on everything and anything her
fridge holds hostage. That is the saddest thing ever as a guy you can do.
5.
Pushing on the sex date
I once met a guy who kept insisting that we needed to have sex so I could
make him feel like a man. This was after probably thrice meeting. That was so
retracting that I couldn’t even hug or look at him after that. If it happens on
the first date, well and good; on the tenth date, still well and good. Most of
the best things in life are not to be rushed in order to avoid unnecessary regrets
and wasted emotions. Keep Calm.
Hope it
helps. Next time you want that girl, go through the list and remind yourself on
what to not do…
Beautiful
day
Love,
Nyandia.
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