WHY MEN LET WOMEN HAVE THEIR WAY

Yes. Finally, here we are. The truth of the matter is, guys do let women have their way with many things; among them their finances, then later when they get dumped for this and that reason, they start perfecting their art of tantrum-throwing saying all he ever gets to date is a gold-digging bitch in the name of a woman.

Here’s a few reasons on why I believe most men let women bleed them dry; emotionally, psychologically, mentally and physically:

     1.      Sex

Yes I said it. And it’s so true. When a chic has already started nibbling on your neck and has stripped, exposing her derriere, you as a guy will give her anything she asks for. Its nature, its males, its men. Sad but it’s true.

Also, when a man knows that the woman really knows her way around the man especially in bedroom matters; he will drop his account, get her a car and even begin paying for her mortgage. FACT

     2.      Weakness

Men really are the weaker sex in more ways than one. That’s why I don’t understand women who strive to be equal to men. Some guys really can never say no to anything that has tits and an ass. Some guys simply are easy to manipulate, as evil as it sounds, it is a fact. It sometimes is just that simple.

     3.      Power

Money. Some guys feel power knowing that they can and do provide everything for the lady. Given a chance, he would provide the very earth she walks on and the very air she breathes if he could just so he owns her. In all sugar daddy or side-dish cases, this is the issue, the old pot-bellied guy OWNS YOUR ASS and there’s nothing you can do about it. If he leaves you, basically you’re screwed.

    4.      Being a gentleman cum good boy

Yeah yeah yeah we get it, your Moms and Pops raised you right and according to them, a woman should never have to pay for anything, let alone the bill. Now, keep in mind that there is probably three generations of change between the time your parents were dating and the time you are dating. The women back then were disciplined and raised well in strict Christian homes with staunch values on discipline and respect. Nowadays half of us come from broken homes and we have no idea what love is supposed to be or feel like.

     5.      Lack of Understanding

Well, it is not much as the lack of but rather the fact that there is not a way to understand a whole entire species known as the Eve species. When men see a woman cry, they have no idea what to do and thus give in to literally everything and anything. Women have their way around a man’s emotions through manipulating their own emotions. Sad and treacherous but true.

      6.      Feeling Undeserving

 An overly macho, mentally weak, sensitive-minded male knows he does not DESERVE a strong minded woman. In his mind, he thinks one day she will mentally awaken to the realization she deserves better than him & leave him. Hence will do anything and everything in his will and ability, sometimes even beyond, to keep her. He tries everything he can to buy her love, loyalty, respect and so on and so forth.

So you see, it really is much deeper than we think or choose to think. Sometimes, it goes further and further back.

Men and Women, Ladies and Gentleman…Hope I somehow helped.

Blessings and Love,

Nyandia.