Two Days ago, I blogged about habits that sell guys short. The response was amazing with people throwing in contributions via social media so...here we are, aluta continua.
6. BRAGGARDS
Guys, EVERYBODY hates a braggard especially the grown women. You see, you may be able to impress some of these high school minded campus girls on what you own or even worse, what your Dad owns but truth is, NOBODY cares. Women like men who put their money where their mouth is and show something for it. Having dated one of these sad beings, be sure that Men nay boys who brag about material, have NOTHING at all…they are just small wounded boys on the inside with very low or no self-esteem and look for alternative ways to rub their own egos often these ways are just an illusion created by the mind.
7. DIRTY UNKEMPT MEN
Oh Lawd!! Ok, if you want to live like a creature, please go get a cave. We are tired of cleaning you up or the idea that it’s your right to have a woman clean up after you. See, this makes us not even trust you like, if you cannot take care of your own darn self, how can you take care of us? It is not attractive when you have weird hair and saggy jeans that’s torn at the bottom as a result of you dragging the jeans all over town for months and I don’t mean ripped jeans. A clean man is the most attractive thing, trust me it is a pure turn on. Ask any girl what they think of a man who smells good… and your Bachelor Dens should also be a reflection of this. We do not expect you to be super sparkling clean or OCD neat freaks but being tidy is super simple and takes up very little time.
8. CLINGY
This goes both ways trust me. If we wanted someone or something that was always with us, we already have our handbags and clutch purses. It’s good to breathe, it healthy to actually. Have your YOU time either by yourself or with your boys and let me have my ME time by myself or with my friends. I always insist, partners shouldn’t be burdened with being someone’s all…they should just be an element cum complement of someone, the beautiful. Absence makes the heart grow fond after all, but doesn’t mean you should spend hours without checking in ok?
9. PHONE BUFFON
If on the first date you seem always edgy when your phone rings or receives a message alert AND/OR always keep looking at your phone, reading and replying messages, I definitely will never want to meet you again. Poor people skills man!
10. OBSESSIVE
Oh yes believe me or not, there are so many men who are super obsessed with themselves. If you always hog the conversation just so you can be heard or always talk about yourself; how you do this, how if it were you, how your workmates love you, how your exes fell at a loss when you dumped them, how good looking you are, get the flow? You’re doomed.
Glad it helped!! *wink
Kisses, Nyandia
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